The Luxury of Being Yourself — A Manifesto on Feminine Rebirth

About the book

Luxury isn't about what you wear, but about who you allow yourself to be. Because there are moments when the soul craves silence, and from that silence, what you always were shines again. This book is a whisper to the soul. It speaks of the rebirth that comes when you choose to look at yourself without judgment, of the body that changes, but also awakens, of the woman who returns home after so much pretending. Because true luxury is inhabiting yourself, with truth and with love.

Find your passion

Finding your passion isn't about going back to the past, it's about listening to yourself today. After years of holding on, nurturing, and fulfilling obligations… there comes a moment when you ask yourself:

And what do I want now?

Your passion hasn't been lost. It's just been overshadowed by obligations, responsibilities, and other people's expectations.

Mujer con blusa blanca y pantalones negros, sombrero de paja, caminando por una pasarela, fondo negro.

Here I'll help you reconnect with yourself, to discover what excites you now, at 45, 50, 55, or beyond. Because this is the time to live authentically, not out of obligation.

Mature passion doesn't shout: it illuminates. And when you return to yourself… you return to it.

Finding your passion isn't the path. It's the consequence.

Mujer girando con un vestido blanco, brazo extendido, descalza sobre fondo blanco, sonriendo.

When you return to yourself…

your passion returns on its own

Finding your passion isn't something you look for outside yourself. It's not in a course, a rigid plan, or a manual.

Finding your passion is a side effect of choosing yourself again. Of ceasing to beg for love. Of filling your body with truth. Of beginning to treat yourself as a priority.

When you respect yourself, when you honor yourself and listen to yourself, what you love appears. Your desire awakens. Your voice becomes clear. Your purpose is revealed.

Passion isn't found. It's remembered.

And menopause—that stage the world sold as the end—is, in reality, the portal where you can finally inhabit your truth without asking permission.

Mature passion is born right here: when you return to yourself.

Upcoming events

Each encounter is a space to stop time, to listen to yourself again and to remember that true luxury is feeling at peace with yourself.

First presentation of the book

Hyatt Regency Hesperia Madrid Hotel – Paseo de la Castellana October 18, 2025 🕕 6:30 PM

An evening dedicated to authenticity, inner beauty, and feminine rebirth. Guiomar Alfaro will present "The Luxury of Being Yourself," sharing the story, the creative process, and the emotion that inspired each page.

Entry by invitation only | Limited capacity

Be inspired to return to yourself.

Each reading here is an invitation to remind yourself: to rediscover your passion after 45, to honor menopause as a portal of truth, and to return to yourself to elevate your life and your brand from within.

Mujer con un vestido brillante posa sobre una alfombra roja. Fondo iluminado de L'Oréal Paris.
Mujer con vestido sin espalda y joyas de oro, con los brazos extendidos, apoyada en unas cortinas.
Una mujer con pantalones verdes y blusa color canela se estira en un banco de madera, con los brazos extendidos, al aire libre cerca de la vegetación.
Una persona vestida con abrigo y pantalones color beige cruza una calle mojada, llevando una bolsa. Otra persona, con bata blanca, la sigue.